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In her nightmares, Jaymie Lennon's former boss calls her an idiot, undermines her confidence, tells other employees that Lennon is "unstable" and "mentally ill," and regularly threatens to fire her.
Just, she says, like in real life.
Cary Stidham says the same boss called him "stupid" in front of others, and degraded him in meetings with clients. He saw her throw phones, and kick walls and file cabinets.
They're talking about Louise Long, director of the Seattle Marathon Association. While her organization is under scrutiny for its finances and her possible conflicts of interest, what's come to light is a problem familiar in lots of workplaces: Long — hardcharging, intense and, some would argue, successful — was seen by some as an office bully.
While recently visible, she's hardly alone. Abrasive bosses haunt the corridors of power (former United Nations Ambassador John Bolton browbeat subordinates), the basketball court (Bobby Knight was famous for throwing chairs to express his displeasure), or the smallest office.
More than one-third of workers — 54 million Americans — say they have experienced workplace bullying, according to a 2007 Zogby International poll commissioned by the Workplace Bullying Institute.
A workplace bully may shout, swear, call employees names, intimidate, humiliate, tarnish reputations, sabotage and destroy workplace relationships. And unless the victim is part of a protected class (defined by gender, age, race, ethnicity, religion or disability) or covered by an employment contract, such behavior is legal.
"There is no law that says you can't be a bully," says Chris Young, an employment attorney with Peterson, Young, Putra, Fletcher in Seattle.
Psychologists Gary and Ruth Namie, founders of the Bellingham-based Workplace Bullying Institute, want harassed workers to have better options. They're pushing the "Healthy Workplace Bill," sponsored by Rep. Kelli Linville (D-Bellingham), which would give employees the right to sue their employer if their health or economic livelihood is harmed by an abusive workplace.
While the bill doesn't use the term "bully," Gary Namie defines it as "repeated nonphysical, health-impairing psychological mistreatment that falls outside discriminatory harassment."
A nonreaction
According to the Zogby poll, 44 percent of the time employers react to reports of bullying by doing nothing.
"Employers are not motivated to stop bullies because there is no law, no consequence," Namie says. "They write it off as someone's 'management style.' And there are benefits; companies think the bullies get results, think they are indispensable."
Workplace bullying takes a toll, on employees and on business. Health studies show that work-related stress can lead to depression, post-traumatic stress disorder, strokes, heart attacks, chronic fatigue and economic devastation from being fired or forced to leave.
Tales from the front
Jaymie Lennon, 28, remembers crying every day during the four months she worked for the Seattle Marathon Association. One time, Lennon was at the hospital, literally sick from stress.
"She kept calling," Lennon says of Louise Long. "She would say, 'I don't care if you're sick. You need to get back here.' " One day Lennon went to lunch and never returned to the office.
Cary Stidham, now 29, quit the Marathon Association soon after Lennon did, at the end of 2006. After being denied unemployment benefits, he appealed and described to a judge why he quit: the yelling and screaming; how Long called him "stupid"; how, in a meeting with a client, she laced comments about Stidham with profanities; how she rolled her eyes when he told her she shouldn't speak to him like that. The judge ruled in Stidham's favor.
"I didn't want to be a whistle-blower," Stidham says. "[But] I have literally never met anyone who treated people like that."
Long acknowledges that her management style has been abrasive, but she says that the months just before and after the marathon are stressful.
"When you're working on an event, the staff has to be willing to keep up with that kind of pace," she says.
Long won't talk about claims that she threw things or swore at employees; she does say that about a year ago her board of directors gave her a set of "management expectations" to work on. She says she has made changes.
"It's pretty calm around here now," she says. "Anyone would be happy to work here."
The bottom line
A bullying boss is bad for business, experts say. Talented people leave, companies get a bad reputation, morale plummets. And there is a cost to the company in absenteeism, lack of productivity and high turnover.
Nowhere is it written that a boss can't be petty or mean — except in England, Norway, France and Sweden, whose health-and-safety laws include protection against bullies.
Four other states will consider a version of Namie's Healthy Workplace Bill this year. In all, he has pitched it to 13 states, but none has adopted it. An anti-bullying bill proposed in Washington's last legislative session never made it out of committee.
"We have animal cruelty laws," Namie says, "but we don't have human cruelty laws."
Rebecca Morris has been a broadcast and print journalist for 34 years. She teaches journalism at Bellevue Community College.
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By Billie on January 29, 2008 5:58 PM
Bullying takes many forms, not all of which are physical or verbal. The worst job I've ever had involved a narcissitic, vindictive, and unethical boss. Additionally, I served on a management "team" with a small number of backstabbing and mean-spirited individuals who would run to the spiteful boss with negative opinions about each other, in a lame attempt to make themselves look better.
It was all quite petty, creepy, and pathetic. And, when an ineffective and impotent Board supports the unscrupulous boss, there are no options but to depart. And in the end, one can only pity such small people who will be left to continue in their mediocrity. I'm only sorry that I wasted my time and talent, doing excellent work for this employer.
No legislation is likely to change such individuals. It's all about the leadership, and as long as leadership is willing to retain such individuals, one can only protect oneself. Government isn't your saviour, your nanny, or your answer.
By Dark Hornet on August 11, 2008 10:31 PM
Abusive workplaces are on the rise. Poor management and ineffective "employee centric" policies are a laugh.
Get a boss who harbors homophobia even when it is all but outlawed in Seattle, he can sabotage a career in a heartbeat.
No you cannot legislate an abuse free workplace, but an employee should be able to view their HR file at any time and refute what it contains.
Not so where I work, and if you ask it's another black mark.
By chris morphew on February 23, 2009 3:01 PM
What if the Workplace Bully is a county judge? And with her is her puppet/bulldog...a co-worker in the same office.
Can I sue a judge for the same unethical tactics and hostile harrassment?
I would appreciate some direction as soon as possible. Thanks.
By Cullen on March 1, 2009 8:06 PM
We need to stop work place bullying now. I worked at a germAN company her ein the U.S. when a guy called people stupid and degraded many people. The general manager screamed and cursed at people. many of them women. Some of the husbands are so angry at these people they want to take the matter into their own hands. I hope it does not happen. Many people are cowards and do not want to whistleblow. We need laws to protect the dignity of people in the workplace. My experience has been that foul language eventually leads to blood shed. I anticipate it happening soon in this german company because obivious they condone this behavior.
By Kristy Madsen on April 18, 2009 10:59 PM
I was just terminated from a company for blowing the whistle on a "bully"
By jaimini mehta on August 27, 2009 2:12 PM
My husband always complained about his boss. He is always growchy and use foul language front of all employees to my husband. also he don't get enough lunchtime. Working more than 12 hrs a day on workweek. He cannot say anything because he is worried that if he says somthing he get fired. and it is very hard to get a job in these days.
He come home every day with sad face. His own employer is bully.