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I recently went to see "Suffer for Beauty: A Revealing Look at Women's History Through Undergarments," a fantastic little exhibit at the White River Valley Museum in Auburn.
I marveled at the impossibly tiny waist-cinching corsets of the 1880s and the aptly named "hobble skirts" of the 1910s. I gasped at the gray post-war "new work dress" and accompanying white apron, which looked far too frou frou and constricting for preparing food, cleaning house, or whatever other paid domestic work they were designed for. If I had such a dress in my possession, the only thing I'd be wearing it to would be a cocktail party.
An essay at the exhibit's entrance offered this overview:
"To leave the home and work for wages, to vote, to be involved in society from beyond the domestic front, a woman had to be able to walk, be reasonably comfortable, and be free to express herself -- so away with the bustles, shorten those corsets, make free her movement!"
Hear hear, I thought.
But I soon began to take inventory of all the times in the workplace I, too, had worn shoes that pinched, hose as tight as any sausage casing, and silk shirts that made me sweat buckets -- none of which I'd describe as "reasonably comfortable."
As an employee, I eventually I caught on to the difference between commuter shoes you wear on the bus and impromptu-meeting-with-the-boss shoes you keep under your desk. Likewise, I learned the beauty of leaving a power blouse and blazer on a hanger behind my office door in the event of an unexpected client meeting.
I'm certainly not the only worker -- female or male -- who's had to juggle more than one pair of shoes or multiple costume changes throughout the workday to strike the right balance between comfort and office appropriateness. I'm also not the only worker who eventually opted out of starched-shirt corporations altogether because they didn't, well, suit me.
Sure, in terms of workplace apparel, women (and men) have come a long way, baby. But as long as there are still employees downing Ibuprofen to dull the throb of their aching feet or sponging off the sweat pooling under their dress shirts between meetings I wouldn't say we're there yet.
Freelance writer Michelle Goodman is the author of "My So-Called Freelance Life" and "The Anti 9-to-5 Guide." E-mail her at ninetothrive@nwjobs.com.
By tina on September 29, 2009 7:40 AM
I totally agree! But what's more painful for me is less about physical comfort and more the realization that I'm "toning myself down" in the workplace. I'm not expressing my true self through my apparel, in order to blend in and look "appropriate." When will my authentic self be appropriate??
By aminosaure on October 3, 2009 12:14 AM
Really nice article..Really we have to think about it .. Nice topic to be discussed.